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	<title>Comments on: just me and dolly parton. without all the enormous boobs.</title>
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	<description>a little bit southern peach. a little bit midwestern cheesehead. a little bit canuck. no wonder i need therapy.</description>
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		<title>By: Chantal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chantal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 14:02:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like going to work for the break, but my job is stressful, physical and my office environment sucks a bit. 

This is  my first real job after over 10 years of being a SAHM and I&#039;m jonesing to quit. Seriously. I hate it. 

Now I&#039;m always yelling at my kids. I&#039;m always stressed when I get home. I feel behind on everything and just plain tired.  And the guilt. Oh, the guilt. 

I want my SAHMommyhood back.  Huh. All those years I couldn&#039;t wait to get out of here and turns out I always wanted to be here. ;)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Chantals last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://breadcrumbsinthebutter.typepad.com/bread_crumbs_in_the_butte/2008/10/im-sorry.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I&#039;m sorry&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.breadcrumbsinthebutter.typepad.com'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/f0ef88b52b43ec0a5fc1cb36ddb9ead9?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>I like going to work for the break, but my job is stressful, physical and my office environment sucks a bit. </p>
<p>This is  my first real job after over 10 years of being a SAHM and I&#8217;m jonesing to quit. Seriously. I hate it. </p>
<p>Now I&#8217;m always yelling at my kids. I&#8217;m always stressed when I get home. I feel behind on everything and just plain tired.  And the guilt. Oh, the guilt. </p>
<p>I want my SAHMommyhood back.  Huh. All those years I couldn&#8217;t wait to get out of here and turns out I always wanted to be here. <img src='http://www.alimartell.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Chantals last blog post..<a href="http://breadcrumbsinthebutter.typepad.com/bread_crumbs_in_the_butte/2008/10/im-sorry.html" rel="nofollow">I&#8217;m sorry</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Nadine</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-805145</link>
		<dc:creator>Nadine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 11:56:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whatever works best for you &amp; your family! It&#039;s important that you have your balance. I&#039;m glad we live in a time where women have that choice.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nadines last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.helloworlditsme.com/archives/000990.php&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Penis conversations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.helloworlditsme.com'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/f4709b2a220a2f30cc5d9a52ad113bc0?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Whatever works best for you &amp; your family! It&#8217;s important that you have your balance. I&#8217;m glad we live in a time where women have that choice.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Nadines last blog post..<a href="http://www.helloworlditsme.com/archives/000990.php" rel="nofollow">Penis conversations</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Kristabella</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-804606</link>
		<dc:creator>Kristabella</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 22:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Everyone is different. And I have plenty of friends that flourish as SAHMs. And I have plenty of friends who are just not good in a SAHM role because they need to work. And whatever you have to do to be the best parent, you do it. It doesn&#039;t make you a bad parent either way. I wish people would stop thinking that way.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kristabellas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fullofsnark.com/2008/11/06/minnesota-where-they-like/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Minnesota: Where They Like To Spell&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://fullofsnark.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/0e5321890ae8bfa2ec3b40886b66677c?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Everyone is different. And I have plenty of friends that flourish as SAHMs. And I have plenty of friends who are just not good in a SAHM role because they need to work. And whatever you have to do to be the best parent, you do it. It doesn&#8217;t make you a bad parent either way. I wish people would stop thinking that way.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Kristabellas last blog post..<a href="http://fullofsnark.com/2008/11/06/minnesota-where-they-like/" rel="nofollow">Minnesota: Where They Like To Spell</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Mike</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-804251</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 05:44:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>2 points...

1) Damn, girl. You get lots of comments!

2) This post totally captured the complexity of being a parent these days. Modern parenting is harder than our parents had it, I say.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mikes last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://thenewbornidentity.com/?p=136&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;XXX! SEX! XXX!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.thenewbornidentity.com'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/7cd897789ca717e7f2efcc1cdc0d2e74?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>2 points&#8230;</p>
<p>1) Damn, girl. You get lots of comments!</p>
<p>2) This post totally captured the complexity of being a parent these days. Modern parenting is harder than our parents had it, I say.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Mikes last blog post..<a href="http://thenewbornidentity.com/?p=136" rel="nofollow">XXX! SEX! XXX!</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: metalia</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-804165</link>
		<dc:creator>metalia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 01:28:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>WORD. You already know how I feel about this. :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;metalias last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://metalia.blogspot.com/2008/11/one-more-reason-to-love-target.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;One more reason to love Target&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://metalia.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/e5adfb14d750af69233b152460102d7f?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>WORD. You already know how I feel about this. <img src='http://www.alimartell.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>metalias last blog post..<a href="http://metalia.blogspot.com/2008/11/one-more-reason-to-love-target.html" rel="nofollow">One more reason to love Target</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Sherendipity</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-804075</link>
		<dc:creator>Sherendipity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 22:31:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good for you, Ali.  Be proud of who you are, and of your accomplishments.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Sherendipitys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://sherendipity.com/blog/archives/1025&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Don’t blame me for my randomality, blame nablowme.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://sherendipity.com/blog'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/048e66f107965ad8fdc2be1d9e8c35e2?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Good for you, Ali.  Be proud of who you are, and of your accomplishments.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Sherendipitys last blog post..<a href="http://sherendipity.com/blog/archives/1025" rel="nofollow">Don’t blame me for my randomality, blame nablowme.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Courtney</title>
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		<dc:creator>Courtney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 21:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It definitely has to be about what works for you. Right now I&#039;m loving staying at home with her, but some days I want to scream and I just want to go be ME and not MOM for a second or two.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Courtneys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://fiveseconddanceparty.com/?p=526&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Thank. God.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://fiveseconddanceparty.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/8dce27d1486aa8baed0648d4939566d4?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>It definitely has to be about what works for you. Right now I&#8217;m loving staying at home with her, but some days I want to scream and I just want to go be ME and not MOM for a second or two.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Courtneys last blog post..<a href="http://fiveseconddanceparty.com/?p=526" rel="nofollow">Thank. God.</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Maya</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/11/05/just-me-and-dolly-parton-without-all-the-enormous-boobs/comment-page-1/#comment-804019</link>
		<dc:creator>Maya</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:51:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Today, as I was dressed, ready to leave my house this morning, I almost cried. My daughters wake up in the morning and beam when they see me. It&#039;s so great- and then I have to leave because mommy has to work. I enjoy working, bec I would go crazy at home- plus I need to financially... but it kills me to not spend a few hours in the mornings with them.
There&#039;s never a good enough solution, I guess.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Mayas last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://geminigirl64.wordpress.com/2008/11/06/hi-im-geminigirl-and-im-a-spend-a-holic/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hi, I’m GeminiGirl…. and I’m a Spend-a-holic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://geminigirl64.wordpress.com/'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/770663f802f18c85dc839e24bd126860?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Today, as I was dressed, ready to leave my house this morning, I almost cried. My daughters wake up in the morning and beam when they see me. It&#8217;s so great- and then I have to leave because mommy has to work. I enjoy working, bec I would go crazy at home- plus I need to financially&#8230; but it kills me to not spend a few hours in the mornings with them.<br />
There&#8217;s never a good enough solution, I guess.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Mayas last blog post..<a href="http://geminigirl64.wordpress.com/2008/11/06/hi-im-geminigirl-and-im-a-spend-a-holic/" rel="nofollow">Hi, I’m GeminiGirl…. and I’m a Spend-a-holic</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Beck</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beck</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:16:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do get it. I like being a stay-at-home mom, but I have sahm friends who are MISERABLE and are just not happy being around their kids all the time - their families would likely be better served by them getting a job. I really think children do best when their mothers are able to be happy as parents and as people at the same time.
(And oh my god, i hate taking my kids to the park. BARRRRF.)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Becks last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://frogandtoadarestillfriends.blogspot.com/2008/11/doctor-sometimes-i-cry-for-no-good.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Doctor, Sometimes I Cry For No Good Reason&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://frogandtoadarestillfriends.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/09b3d95e9f655120c87d7ff3c9b11496?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>I do get it. I like being a stay-at-home mom, but I have sahm friends who are MISERABLE and are just not happy being around their kids all the time &#8211; their families would likely be better served by them getting a job. I really think children do best when their mothers are able to be happy as parents and as people at the same time.<br />
(And oh my god, i hate taking my kids to the park. BARRRRF.)</p>
<p><abbr><em>Becks last blog post..<a href="http://frogandtoadarestillfriends.blogspot.com/2008/11/doctor-sometimes-i-cry-for-no-good.html" rel="nofollow">Doctor, Sometimes I Cry For No Good Reason</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: monstergirlee</title>
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		<dc:creator>monstergirlee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:42:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know I would work at least part time if that would work for our family, but we need the income from both of us to pay bills.
Every time I read a post like this I get sad, because I miss my kids when I only get to see them an hour in the morning, and an hour and a half at night. Sucks.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;monstergirlees last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://monstergirlee.blogspot.com/2008/11/primary-colors.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Primary Colors&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://monstergirlee.blogspot.com/'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/e9e71354773acabc2286ae969003fd20?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>I know I would work at least part time if that would work for our family, but we need the income from both of us to pay bills.<br />
Every time I read a post like this I get sad, because I miss my kids when I only get to see them an hour in the morning, and an hour and a half at night. Sucks.</p>
<p><abbr><em>monstergirlees last blog post..<a href="http://monstergirlee.blogspot.com/2008/11/primary-colors.html" rel="nofollow">Primary Colors</a></em></abbr></p>
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