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	<title>Comments on: the expandable fork of doom returns&#8230;and why i might actually *like* my 30s</title>
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	<description>a little bit southern peach. a little bit midwestern cheesehead. a little bit canuck. no wonder i need therapy.</description>
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		<title>By: Elinor Martell</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-1077309</link>
		<dc:creator>Elinor Martell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 11:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s great to hear that you have such a good relationship with your step-mom. I&#039;ve have 5 step kids and I&#039;d really love to have the same kind of friendship that you share, but unfortunately, it&#039;s not been that way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/c8dec20bb615c1bcaa5dc607c9f5fc65?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></span>It&#8217;s great to hear that you have such a good relationship with your step-mom. I&#8217;ve have 5 step kids and I&#8217;d really love to have the same kind of friendship that you share, but unfortunately, it&#8217;s not been that way.</p>
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		<title>By: Cheaper Than Therapy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; just me and dolly parton. without all the enormous boobs.</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-803362</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheaper Than Therapy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; just me and dolly parton. without all the enormous boobs.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 15:18:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] ahead and judge. i&#8217;m okay with it. aliat30 is okay with it. aliat30 doesn&#8217;t even feel guilty about it. well, 90% of the time. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] ahead and judge. i&#8217;m okay with it. aliat30 is okay with it. aliat30 doesn&#8217;t even feel guilty about it. well, 90% of the time. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Cheaper Than Therapy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; what i&#8217;ve done in the last fifteen years&#8230;(sadly, David Beckham isn&#8217;t one of &#8216;em)</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-653319</link>
		<dc:creator>Cheaper Than Therapy &#187; Blog Archive &#187; what i&#8217;ve done in the last fifteen years&#8230;(sadly, David Beckham isn&#8217;t one of &#8216;em)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 16:23:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] and i flashed a rabbi. i don&#8217;t know who was more traumatized. 10. i&#8217;m 30. THIRTY. and i love it. i did the marrying and babying thing in my twenties and i&#8217;m really looking forward to [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] and i flashed a rabbi. i don&#8217;t know who was more traumatized. 10. i&#8217;m 30. THIRTY. and i love it. i did the marrying and babying thing in my twenties and i&#8217;m really looking forward to [...]</p>
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		<title>By: MazingAmy</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-591484</link>
		<dc:creator>MazingAmy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 08:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was the same way in my teens and 20s--totally tongue tied and hard time initiating conversations with people i didn&#039;t know. 

But no more!! I lost it throughout my 30s. 

Now am 39, and people say &quot;Amy, she can talk to ANYONE&quot;

I just wonder what new and different changes my 40s will bring!

&lt;em&gt;MazingAmy&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://mazingamy.wordpress.com/2008/05/21/let-me-go-on-like-a-blister-in-the-sun/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;let me go on like a blister in the sun…&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://mazingamy.wordpress.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/e54d70949728be9f8e9dabe65286ae6a?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>I was the same way in my teens and 20s&#8211;totally tongue tied and hard time initiating conversations with people i didn&#8217;t know. </p>
<p>But no more!! I lost it throughout my 30s. </p>
<p>Now am 39, and people say &#8220;Amy, she can talk to ANYONE&#8221;</p>
<p>I just wonder what new and different changes my 40s will bring!</p>
<p><em>MazingAmy&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://mazingamy.wordpress.com/2008/05/21/let-me-go-on-like-a-blister-in-the-sun/' rel="nofollow">let me go on like a blister in the sun…</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: slynnro</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-589544</link>
		<dc:creator>slynnro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 20 May 2008 12:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wait really?  Expandable fork of doom?

&lt;em&gt;slynnro&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://slynnro.blogspot.com/2008/05/simultaneously-inspired-and-uninspired.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Simultaneously Inspired and Uninspired.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.slynnro.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/8bec700a14752ae11602051e36596735?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Wait really?  Expandable fork of doom?</p>
<p><em>slynnro&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://slynnro.blogspot.com/2008/05/simultaneously-inspired-and-uninspired.html' rel="nofollow">Simultaneously Inspired and Uninspired.</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Jennifer Baxt</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-588686</link>
		<dc:creator>Jennifer Baxt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 19:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree. The older you get, the bolder you get.  I think it has to do with confidence, not sure though.  Glad to hear your stepmom is rubbing off on you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.completecounselingsolutions.com'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/dbdd7a67152ac48ef72790d33a696d01?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>I agree. The older you get, the bolder you get.  I think it has to do with confidence, not sure though.  Glad to hear your stepmom is rubbing off on you.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather B.</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-588532</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 16:04:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So you&#039;re saying that in five to six years I might actually enjoy being outgoing and talking to random strangers? Somehow I find it hard to believe but if you say so then perhaps. Or perhaps my 30&#039;s will come and I will still be a misanthrope.

&lt;em&gt;Heather B.&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://nopasanada.org/2008/05/19/familia/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Familia&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://nopasanada.org'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/079300940eb69a4a38439d69d5b8e497?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>So you&#8217;re saying that in five to six years I might actually enjoy being outgoing and talking to random strangers? Somehow I find it hard to believe but if you say so then perhaps. Or perhaps my 30&#8242;s will come and I will still be a misanthrope.</p>
<p><em>Heather B.&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://nopasanada.org/2008/05/19/familia/' rel="nofollow">Familia</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Pnina</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-588511</link>
		<dc:creator>Pnina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 14:50:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have the same fork! Use it every weekend we have guests. Have considered taking it on dates with me. Maybe that&#039;s why I am still single...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/f333735be840362217a808375a94f3ec?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></span>I have the same fork! Use it every weekend we have guests. Have considered taking it on dates with me. Maybe that&#8217;s why I am still single&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Mike S</title>
		<link>http://www.alimartell.com/index.php/2008/05/16/the-expandable-fork-of-doom-returnsand-why-i-might-actually-like-my-30s/comment-page-1/#comment-588094</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike S</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 08:03:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gonna get me one o&#039; them thar forks!! Being a very quiet type most of my life, since becoming an Official Maine Geezer &amp; Touristy Type Attraction on my porch each summer, I&#039;ve actually become quite chatty, in a &#039;quiet Geezer way&#039;:)

&lt;em&gt;Mike S&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://jmainewoods.blogspot.com/2008/05/last-of-colonialism-in-north-america.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Last of Colonialism in North America&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://jmainewoods.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://1.gravatar.com/avatar/597a28bed153f5731b8b907c85389908?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Gonna get me one o&#8217; them thar forks!! Being a very quiet type most of my life, since becoming an Official Maine Geezer &amp; Touristy Type Attraction on my porch each summer, I&#8217;ve actually become quite chatty, in a &#8216;quiet Geezer way&#8217;:)</p>
<p><em>Mike S&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://jmainewoods.blogspot.com/2008/05/last-of-colonialism-in-north-america.html' rel="nofollow">Last of Colonialism in North America</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: slynnro</title>
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		<dc:creator>slynnro</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 05:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just FYI, I will get around to doing that meme.  I have been tagged for it 17 times, and I just keeping thinking my blog is already enough of a tribute to my weirdness, ya know?

&lt;em&gt;slynnro&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://slynnro.blogspot.com/2008/05/in-van-down-by-river.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In a van down by the river....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class='eg-image' style='float:left; padding:6px; display:block; width:28px' ><a rel='external nofollow' href='http://www.slynnro.blogspot.com'><img alt='' src='http://0.gravatar.com/avatar/8bec700a14752ae11602051e36596735?s=28&amp;d=http%3A%2F%2Fuse.perl.org%2Fimages%2Fpix.gif%3Fs%3D28&amp;r=PG' class='avatar avatar-28 photo' height='28' width='28' /></a></span>Just FYI, I will get around to doing that meme.  I have been tagged for it 17 times, and I just keeping thinking my blog is already enough of a tribute to my weirdness, ya know?</p>
<p><em>slynnro&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://slynnro.blogspot.com/2008/05/in-van-down-by-river.html' rel="nofollow">In a van down by the river&#8230;.</a></em></p>
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